so this week been skimming out 3 bedrooms , customer has a 11 year old son ,a 14 month baby , and another due in august, so I said to her one day where is your dad today, my dad she says, yes I says where is he, that's not my dad that's my partner, she is 29, and he is 56,....... well I never apologised I had said that's it awkward silence , but anyhoooooo that's the way it goes