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Jurek
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Hi Manos. Welcome. What would you do in this situation? Someones going to get hurt no matter what you do 
Dear Deidre
MY son-in-law came round to change my car tyre – and we ended up having s*x on the sofa.
He and my daughter got married last year. She is 26, he is 32 and a sexy, good-looking man. They have a one-year-old son.
I am 46 and long divorced. This particular Sunday morning I found I had a puncture and the tyre was completely flat.
I phoned my son-in-law who said he’d come round to fix it on his way to play football with his mates.
When he’d finished the job, I told him how grateful I was and offered him some beer money.
But he said: “You look really hot. Come here you gorgeous woman.”
He looked gorgeous himself, all dishevelled and with his muscles on show. I melted into his arms, I just couldn’t resist.
He led me to the sitting room where we had amazing s*x. But he had to leave straight afterwards, as he was running late for his mates by then.
It has been very awkward between us ever since. I feel totally ashamed and can hardly look at him.
But I now have a far bigger worry — I am pregnant and not sure who the father is.
I am seeing a man I met through a dating site but it’s very early days, and we have always used protection.
Do I confess and risk losing my daughter, or keep quiet and bring the child up without a father?
DEIDRE SAYS: If it is awkward seeing your son-in-law now, think how much worse it could be if you go ahead with this unplanned pregnancy.
Your daughter would never trust you again if the truth came out – and such secrets tend to come out in the end.
What would you tell the child about his or her father? It would likely cause a rift in the family which would mean you’d be cut off from your grandson – who might lose his dad over it all too.
Your son-in-law isn’t likely to be an involved and caring father to your child, either. You’d be a single parent and it’s hard to see you being a very happy family unit.
My e-leaflet Unplanned Pregnancy will help you look at your options. And you can talk it over in confidence with the British Pregnancy Advisory Service (bpas.org, 03457 30 40 30).
Dear Deidre
MY son-in-law came round to change my car tyre – and we ended up having s*x on the sofa.
He and my daughter got married last year. She is 26, he is 32 and a sexy, good-looking man. They have a one-year-old son.
I am 46 and long divorced. This particular Sunday morning I found I had a puncture and the tyre was completely flat.
I phoned my son-in-law who said he’d come round to fix it on his way to play football with his mates.
When he’d finished the job, I told him how grateful I was and offered him some beer money.
But he said: “You look really hot. Come here you gorgeous woman.”
He looked gorgeous himself, all dishevelled and with his muscles on show. I melted into his arms, I just couldn’t resist.
He led me to the sitting room where we had amazing s*x. But he had to leave straight afterwards, as he was running late for his mates by then.
It has been very awkward between us ever since. I feel totally ashamed and can hardly look at him.
But I now have a far bigger worry — I am pregnant and not sure who the father is.
I am seeing a man I met through a dating site but it’s very early days, and we have always used protection.
Do I confess and risk losing my daughter, or keep quiet and bring the child up without a father?
DEIDRE SAYS: If it is awkward seeing your son-in-law now, think how much worse it could be if you go ahead with this unplanned pregnancy.
Your daughter would never trust you again if the truth came out – and such secrets tend to come out in the end.
What would you tell the child about his or her father? It would likely cause a rift in the family which would mean you’d be cut off from your grandson – who might lose his dad over it all too.
Your son-in-law isn’t likely to be an involved and caring father to your child, either. You’d be a single parent and it’s hard to see you being a very happy family unit.
My e-leaflet Unplanned Pregnancy will help you look at your options. And you can talk it over in confidence with the British Pregnancy Advisory Service (bpas.org, 03457 30 40 30).
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