Don't get them tax credits . Wifes part time . I.m part time yet get nowt. I know people who get more then us who get tax creditI’m the main bread winner . Got two Young kids . But tax credits make it up . I’m just a poor self employed plasterer that just gets by if you get my jist.
flipping hell Andy g, no wonder your down. It’s not a nice position to be in. Do yourself a really big favour and go and talk to someone at McMillan cancer support, they know how it affects the whole family aswell and they will be able to help guide you through these difficult times.
U sould like rigsbyJob satisfaction is pretty important...
If push came to shove I would only need to work a few days a month to keep a roof and food. But we have tried to keep our outgoings low... no debt and the biggest killer is subscriptions... so we don't do any pay monthly crap
She can never work again but she his alive and kicking she live for holiday now want to see the world cheer mateFeel for you Andy. As someone who has been in similar position what I can tell you for those who do not know. You have no control. You are not in control. All you can do is listen and go where you are told then do as you are told. You are completely helpless, frustrated and angry not to mention worried sick but you can never say anything.
Then you realise all those material things you want and plan for. ....... mean absolutely F*** All.
We were talking the other day and only realised that the day the mrs had her op. The nurses and doctors allowed us to be together in the pre-op room next to the operating theater. We now realise there was a reason for that.
Hope all goes well Andy.
She didn't needed one mate, as she opted for mastectomy on the 2nd occasion, but on hormone tablets for rest of her life, she had the all clear, but no guarantees it won't come back anywhere elseSorry to hear that ,did she have keymo, my missus had everything go she is ok now
Cheers mate, only mentioned it to cheer him up and let him know he's not the only one out there